When your mind and heart are truly open abundance will flow to you effortlessly and easily.
Question:
I deal with guilt all the time. I always live in fear of hurting others. I have stayed with very toxic people because of fear of hurting them. I put all my needs last because I feel like I am being selfish and horrible if I don’t do things for others. How do I stop?
Response:
You didn’t mention whether you or these toxic people get anything positive out of your staying with them. Given that, it’s not clear that they would be hurt if you left, and if you are not getting anything out of this service, then you certainly shouldn’t feel guilty. Your guilt is based on a misperception and that mistake is making you martyr yourself needlessly. Correct the perception, take the appropriate action and then the guilt will fade away on its own.
Love,
Deepak